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Post by billbo1970 on Sept 10, 2003 15:55:43 GMT -5
Then you're not crying often enough! "Cry me a River" ;D That's cause real men don't cry J/K
PIC, Bill [/color]
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Post by Island Girl on Sept 12, 2003 14:47:07 GMT -5
I don't want to bother you at work, but I just caught up. HOW INSANE! I hope the 15th comes and goes very quickly! Praying for you sister. Email or IM when you get a chance!
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Post by VicVanMama on Sept 15, 2003 23:09:27 GMT -5
I just got online since my last post, and I see no update has been made, you are not forgotten.
Peace
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Post by Panther on Sept 16, 2003 8:24:18 GMT -5
I just got online since my last post, and I see no update has been made, you are not forgotten. Peace Thank you so much. I won't be able to post at all today, will have to do it tonight. So far, he HASN'T contested. I have one more day to wait then I am at the courthouse on Thursday morning as soon as they open and I am FREE! Please all, pray that he doesn't contest! One more day to wait...... Thanks VicVanMama for looking for an update, that makes me feel good! God Bless Lisa
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Post by MorningStar on Sept 16, 2003 8:28:36 GMT -5
Thank you so much. I won't be able to post at all today, will have to do it tonight. So far, he HASN'T contested. I have one more day to wait then I am at the courthouse on Thursday morning as soon as they open and I am FREE! Please all, pray that he doesn't contest! One more day to wait...... Thanks VicVanMama for looking for an update, that makes me feel good! God Bless Lisa Good luck!! You'll be in my thoughts this week!
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Post by flukehouse on Sept 16, 2003 8:29:08 GMT -5
Still praying for you...
Gods Love, Gods Peace, Kelly
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Post by Panther on Sept 16, 2003 16:10:05 GMT -5
Good luck!! You'll be in my thoughts this week! Thank you SOO much morningstar~ I need all the prayer I can get!
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Post by Panther on Sept 16, 2003 16:11:08 GMT -5
Still praying for you... Gods Love, Gods Peace, Kelly Thank you Kelly so much! Hey, I never heard anything about my "arrest" that night either. From what I am told, sometime a charge comes out of it and sometimes they just drop it. Hopefully~~ God Bless!
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Post by Alison on Sept 23, 2003 19:57:41 GMT -5
Hey Lisa, wanted to let you know that I'm still checking your post often. Didn't want you to think that I have forgotton about you. I just haven't had a chance to post a lot. But you are in my prayers and thoughts.
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Post by VicVanMama on Sept 25, 2003 22:55:33 GMT -5
I, too, have been checking for updates. I see that none have been made, so I am hoping that silence is good. In my prayers,
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Post by nihtwing on Sept 29, 2003 16:15:13 GMT -5
Hi Lisa....read your posting today......and I will chip in a couple thoughts of my own, but first I apologize if something similar has already been posted, as I have not read all the posts in this heading.
Does the city you live in have some sort of police action review committee? I ask this because it might be worthy to have them look into this to determine if the officers followed the right course of action. Yes you did have a restraining order against your ex, but one worthy question for a review comittee is to question why the police found it necessary to arrest the ex? Even though he had a restraining order, it also sounds like he had your consent to be around you. Another worthy question would be why they felt it was necessary to take you to the ground? If they just took you to the ground while you did not pose any physical threat to them, and without giving you any warning, then you might have a case against them(IE did they advise you not to interfere, did they follow procedure to the extent that this was only used as a last resort, etc etc). Most officers are very professional, making good judgements, but there are always a few bad apples in every barrel. A couple witnesses and maybe even a lawyer and review committee just might help you.
Concerning your husband, there might be ways you can find him, and recover some of what he took from you.
~~~Jason~~~
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Post by Panther on Oct 5, 2003 9:54:41 GMT -5
Update: Dan did contest. Meaning there was no divorce yet. He responded by contesting the divorce- he wants half my stuff. Is this guy for real? I surely don't understand. Part of me thinks he feels rejected and that's why the fight. His ego is hurt (he is that type of guy, big time)
Final trial is set for November 16, that's the earliest that I could get it.
I have been having a hard time lately. I am so hurt that he turned out like this and have been having a hard time dealing with it. I am shocked I could be treated like this, after I gave so much and my whole heart.
My faith even feels shattered at this point and I am trying HARD to get my head back on straight. I am praying so hard for peace again.
Blessings Lisa
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Post by AuntRonda on Oct 9, 2003 5:18:16 GMT -5
Update: Dan did contest. Meaning there was no divorce yet. He responded by contesting the divorce- he wants half my stuff. Is this guy for real? I surely don't understand. Part of me thinks he feels rejected and that's why the fight. His ego is hurt (he is that type of guy, big time) Final trial is set for November 16, that's the earliest that I could get it. I have been having a hard time lately. I am so hurt that he turned out like this and have been having a hard time dealing with it. I am shocked I could be treated like this, after I gave so much and my whole heart. My faith even feels shattered at this point and I am trying HARD to get my head back on straight. I am praying so hard for peace again. Blessings Lisa Hang in there, Lisa. Ronda
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Post by Panther on Oct 9, 2003 8:24:30 GMT -5
Thanks Ronda. And I can understand your prayer about being falsly accused....I don't know if you read this whole thread, but the same thing happened to me with the police and I have NEVER been in trouble. Thanks for your support. Lisa
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Post by Panther on Oct 9, 2003 8:27:20 GMT -5
Well, I saw Dan. We talked....and cried. He says the only reason he contested was becuase of anger- he doesn't want anything of mine.
He also said he wished I would have been patient with him for one more week- he landed an excellent job and is doing better financially now than he ever has.....
He is very hurt that on the night everything happened that I called out Wayne's name when I was having problems with the police- he said it upset him that I didn't call out to him.....he said it made him so sick he went into the house when it was going on and threw up.....
He wants to go to counseling and pay for it. Thoughts? Thanks! Lisa
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